How Vincent Kompany has Nedum Onuoha to thank for introducing him to his future wife

Belgian footballer Vincent Kompany and his wife Carla Higgs arrive for the charity gala dinner SOS Villages d'enfants (SOS Children's Villages) in Brussels on May 21, 2014.
(Image credit: LAURIE DIEFFEMBACQ/BELGA/AFP via Getty Images)

Burnley manager Vincent Kompany has Sergio Aguero to thank for winning a first Premier League title and Yaya Toure to thank for his first FA Cup.

But the Belgian stalwart has Nedum Onuoha to thank for meeting his wife. The former Manchester City academy product has been telling FourFourTwo how he became close with the former defender – and how without him, he'd never have even met Carla Higgs, a lifelong City fan whom he married in 2011.

“I met Vinny before he came to City,” says Onuoha. “He was a massive prospect at Anderlecht, then Hamburg, so I’d heard of him and went to watch him at Hamburg.

Manchester City's Nedum Onuoha (centre) celebrates scoring his sides second goal with teammates Kolo Toure (right) and Vincent Kompany (left)

Nedum Onuoha played with Vincent Kompany at Manchester City (Image credit: Ed Garvey/Manchester City FC via Getty Images)

“He played No.10 that day and played well. I spent a few days with him and we became friends – in fact, I liked him so much that I introduced him to a friend of mine back in Manchester called Carla. Not only did he sign for City months later, but he eventually married her and they now have children! 

“So I guess I saw something in him immediately, but the funny thing about Vincent is that his significance at the club grew with every season. He was so tough mentally, always overcoming his own injuries and setbacks, but also helping team-mates to be the best they could be.”

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As a fellow defender who used to play with him in the backline, Onuoha got to know Kompany better the most – and it doesn't surprise him that the now Burnley boss is doing so well, given how well he communicated as a player.

“He was never bossy, but Vinny knew exactly how he wanted to play the game,” says Onuoha. “Playing with him at centre-back, I always knew how he wanted me to complement him. If he wanted to be aggressive, he needed someone who’d cover for him. He’d step forward and attack the ball, confident that I would cover him. He made it easy.

Vincent Kompany, Manager of Burnley, applauds the fans prior to the Emirates FA Cup Quarter Final match between Manchester City and Burnley at Etihad Stadium on March 18, 2023 in Manchester, England.

Vincent Kompany led Burnley to promotion in his first season in charge (Image credit: Clive Brunskill/Getty Images)

“Vinny helped create the character of the football club. Others did too, but he wasn’t just a good player, he drove those standards; he was the one who organised the fines, demanding respect from everyone. He was always good at relaying messages to people, even if it had to be done in different ways. 

“If someone needed shouting at, he could do that, but if someone needed gentle advice, he could do that too. I do think he was a bit ahead of his time, because he was taking a more individual approach to the group.”

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Leo Moynihan

Leo Moynihan has been a freelance football writer and author for over 20 years. As well as contributing to FourFourTwo for all of that time, his words have also appeared in The Times, the Sunday Telegraph, the Guardian, Esquire, FHM and the Radio Times. He has written a number of books on football, including ghost projects with the likes of David Beckham and Andrew Cole, while his last two books, The Three Kings and Thou Shall Not Pass have both been recognised by the Sunday Times Sports Book of the Year awards. 

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